{"id":781,"date":"2012-07-24T11:42:08","date_gmt":"2012-07-24T15:42:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/?p=781"},"modified":"2012-07-24T11:42:08","modified_gmt":"2012-07-24T15:42:08","slug":"what-the-hell-is-wrong-with-you-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/2012\/07\/24\/what-the-hell-is-wrong-with-you-people\/","title":{"rendered":"What the Hell is WRONG with You People?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, I&#8217;ve had it with the whole boilin&#8217; of you nutcases!<\/p>\n<p>What in the hell is <em>wrong<\/em> with you that you&#8217;re okay with treating other <em>human beings<\/em> as need fulfillment objects? A good seventy percent of the letters I get aren&#8217;t about how to handle a person to person relationship, but how to get another human being to be more compliant or convenient at need fulfillment.<\/p>\n<p>For pity&#8217;s sake, stoppit!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re not up for having a human to human relationship, you&#8217;ve got problems and, honey, it has zero to do with polyamory.<\/p>\n<p>Join the damn human race before you decide you want a relationship \u2013 and ya know what? This applies across the board. I don&#8217;t give a damn if you&#8217;re monogamous or what. Treat people as humans, not objects to satisfy you.<\/p>\n<p>If you need a promise of a payoff, I can promise you that your relationships will be better and any needs you have will be better fulfilled. Do it for your own self-interest if you can&#8217;t suck it up and, you know, act like a living, thinking <em>person<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>(And yeah, I think I need to get me a damn cup of coffee!)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, I&#8217;ve had it with the whole boilin&#8217; of you nutcases! What in the hell is wrong with you that you&#8217;re okay with treating other human beings as need fulfillment objects? A good seventy percent of the letters I get aren&#8217;t about how to handle a person to person relationship, but how to get another&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-rant"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=781"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/781\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/polyamorousmisanthrope.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}