I was noodling around on the net recently and noticed someone in my way too varied social media sites questioning their sexual orientation and decisions. There was concern about how they’d be perceived. There was concern about present relationships. One concern hit me between the eyeballs. “Am I a hypocrite if I change my mind?”…
Month: January 2013
NRE for Everyone!
You’re in a happy triad. You and your partners do date from time to time, but for the most part, you have a stable, well-run home. Your routine is down pat. You all know your roles in the home and relationship, calendars get updated properly and everything is moving along as smoothly as a bullet…
Heavy Emotional Discussions: now what?
I got an interesting letter from a reader who was concerned about a forthcoming Heavy Discussion with their own Poly Group. There was nervousness. There was concern. There was a desire to Get It Right. Ya know, knowing how to have a Heavy Emotional Discussion is an important skill in any relationship. I mean, when…