A Reader Asks:
I’ve found your site within the last few weeks and I have a question. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years now, and am currently exploring a dom/sub relationship with her.
I do not exhibit this lifestyle in public as I am upper-level management in a public organization. But, with her in our home and specifically in our bedroom I am almost always the submissive. I love my lifestyle, but I was hoping to meet others in our area (southern Missouri) and see how they live.
First question, is it possible to have a dominant/submissive relationship with lesbians or have I lost my mind?
Second question: Do you know of any clubs or organizations in our area?? Thanks for all your help!
I actually laughed at the first question because it seemed a little strange to me. Why couldn’t a lesbian be in a dom/sub relationship if that’s what you and your partner want? If you’re asking if you’re betraying feminist or egalitarian principles by your bedroom activities, you’re not. Enjoy, though it sounds like you already are. *grin* As far as the sanity thing? Sanity is overrated, anyway. You do what works for you.
For your second question about finding a BDSM club in your area, I didn’t know off the top of my head. I asked the PolyFamilies group (a wonderful collective brain of Very Smart people) and was wisely told to check out Fetlife. You can often find local groups there.