I am new to the poly life style and am having a hard time sharing my husband of 13 years with another woman. It is something we had always talked about and thought about but now – that it is happening I am having such a hard time with jealously – and these feelings that…
Month: July 2012
What the Hell is WRONG with You People?
Okay, I’ve had it with the whole boilin’ of you nutcases! What in the hell is wrong with you that you’re okay with treating other human beings as need fulfillment objects? A good seventy percent of the letters I get aren’t about how to handle a person to person relationship, but how to get another…
Unfuck Your Habitat
While certainly housekeeping is not poly-specific, the attitudes around housework and housekeeping can contribute to a happy poly household or rip it apart. May I present an option that might be of use to some of you: Unfuck Your Habitat The basic system might seem a bit like FlyLady. You do bit of work in…
Comments and an Apology
Recently I was just screwing around with the back end of my site and realized that the spam trap had thousands of comments in it. Some small portion of those comments were utterly legitimate, and I did my best to search them out. However, it is entirely possible that I’ve missed some and wound up…
Being Awesome is the Best Solution
I have been in a poly relationship for the last year and half and things are good and bad. My boyfriend is married and has children and I knew that coming into the relationship. I have been in poly relationships before and he has as well. We all set some very clear boundaries in the…
When You Make a Mistake
My partner and I have been together for a little over two years and just about a month ago we decided to pursue Polyamory. It came at a time when we were both just starting to get over a huge hump in our relationship and were feeling really good about us. But it was also…